Standards vs. Expectations
Knowing yourself and what you want is great. But unless the object of your interest is a mind-reader, you may have to communicate your expectations, or risk losing out on a great opportunity.
Archive for the 'Act Like a Lady Think Like A Man' Category
Kudos to Kudrow
In a recent graduation speech, Lisa Kudrow told young people not to take risks. And, believe it or not, I agree with her.
Why Fear a Pretty Face?
In life and love, fear will keep you from getting what you want.
Memories of Relationships Past
When you remember past relationships, do you think of your former partners fondly? Or are you still bitter, angry or hurt?
What Gets You in the Mood?
Why do human beings have sex?
Take Her to a “Chick-Flick”
Romantic comedies may not be your style, guys. But if your lady likes “chick-flicks,” I suggest sharing her popcorn.
The Blaming of You
Do you and your partner play the blame game? Psychologists say it’s only natural, but that doesn’t mean it’s productive.
How Bad Was Bobby Brown?
How much of what you read or hear about other people’s romantic partnerships do you actually believe?
When Partners Do Things We Do Not Like
What does your partner do that drives you crazy? Are you capable of simply accepting that quality or behavior as part of who your mate is, and not considering it a ploy designed to infuriate you?
Appearance Matters
After recently having the woman I've been looking at for eight years blow me away with her beauty, I can now see how appearance matters ... even when we are with partners we truly believe love us no matter how shabby we look.
Monogamy: How Important is It to You?
Considering the emotional, financial and even bodily damage that infidelity can bring about, it’s worth discussing your thoughts on the issue with your mate.
Whitney Houston: A Life Well Lived
While many continue to criticize the songstress’s lifestyle and even sanity in her later years, I applaud her authenticity and courage to live life on her own terms – no matter what anyone else thought or said about her.
In Defense of a Former Stripper
Do you feel guilty about decisions you made in the past? If so, consider this: “right” and “wrong” are subjective, and guilt is a waste of time.
Seal & Heidi: It’s A Wrap
Heidi Klum and Seal’s split is a demonstration that looks can be deceiving.
Should I Help Raise a Child I Didn’t Want?
Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.
Married and ‘Single’ Parenting
To have children, or not to have children: This question has changed the dynamic of many marriages – for better, or for worse.
The Purpose of Sex
Is sex a sacred sharing that should only happen between two people who love each other? Is it simply for pleasure, or solely for reproduction? Or is it about intimacy?
It’s Controversial
Here's what to do about those home-wrecking "other women."
Why I Suspect My Partner is Cheating on Me
A key to a healthy, productive relationship is not learning how to spot the signs of an affair; it is to stop worrying about it.
Where to Find a Good Man
Here's a little frank love about how and where a good woman can find a good man.
How to Avoid “Relationship Debt”
Debt is an unpleasant reality that most Americans have learned to live with – both in their personal finances and in their politics. But remember when you’re holiday shopping this year that it can also be hard on a marriage.
Celebrity Marriages: Why Do We Care?
Many of us romanticize romance … and look to famous people for inspiration – both on-screen and off-screen. But consider how well celebrity romances typically work out.
Adult-Child Anger When Parents Divorce
Divorce is hard on children, but when those children are grown, it can be even harder.
Verbal Abuse: The Whole Truth
When people "put you down," they might actually be doing you a favor.
Get More Done at Home Without Hurting Yourself or Your Relationship
Sometimes, it takes a village to run a household.
Set Some Rules for Disagreements in Your Relationship
Keep minor disagreements from becoming full-blown arguments by creating some rules for engagement in your relationship.
Introducing Yasmin: The Story of a Warm Smile and Acknowledgement
Want to really mesmerize a man? Smile at him.
Frank Love on Satoshi Kanazawa’s Comparison of Black Women to Women of Other Races
Satoshi Kanazawa’s conclusion may be wrong, but the public outrage says more about the protestors than it does about him.
The Beauty of Conflict
Believe it or not, conflict can be good for your relationship.
The Manipulative Nature of Public Proposals
If you're going to pop the question in public, be pretty sure about the answer.
Arnold and Maria (Part II): A Wildly Successful Relationship
Success is in the eye of the beholder, especially when it comes to relationships.
Arnold and Maria: Does Their Split Really Concern You?
Expecting perfection from political couples might be unfair – to them and to you.
Men and Women: We’re in it Together
There are no "women's issues" or "men's issues," because what affects you affects the ones you love.
I’ve Got Lots of Women
It’s a time to thank all of the women in your life.
Wedding-Day Advice for the Royal Couple
Here’s some Frank Love for the fairy-tale couple whose relationship has become a world-wide obsession.
How to Abuse Yourself and Blame Others
“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?
Don’t Take a Chance on Love
Are you hesitant to get into a relationship because you’re afraid to take a chance on love?
How to Be a “Powerful Person in a Partnership”
Who is powerful in your relationship?
Step-Parenting: Do You REALLY Love Them Like Your Own?
Being a step-parent is rewarding … and potentially complicated.
Everyone Poots: Acceptance in Relationships
Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?
Relationship Balance: The Key to Doing What You Want – and Keeping Your Friends
If you want to keep your friends and lovers, you will have to strike a balance between what you want and what they ask of you.
Clichés: Are You Saying What You Mean?
When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.
Walking Away Doesn’t Mean You Have Healed
Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.
“I Don’t Know Where My Boyfriend Lives”
Everybody has secrets. But can you get comfortable with what you don't know about your partner?
