Knowing yourself and what you want is great. But unless the object of your interest is a mind-reader, you may have to communicate your expectations, or risk losing out on a great opportunity.

In a recent graduation speech, Lisa Kudrow told young people not to take risks. And, believe it or not, I agree with her.

In life and love, fear will keep you from getting what you want.

When you remember past relationships, do you think of your former partners fondly? Or are you still bitter, angry or hurt?

Why do human beings have sex?

Romantic comedies may not be your style, guys. But if your lady likes “chick-flicks,” I suggest sharing her popcorn.

Do you and your partner play the blame game? Psychologists say it’s only natural, but that doesn’t mean it’s productive.

How much of what you read or hear about other people’s romantic partnerships do you actually believe?

What does your partner do that drives you crazy? Are you capable of simply accepting that quality or behavior as part of who your mate is, and not considering it a ploy designed to infuriate you?

After recently having the woman I’ve been looking at for eight years blow me away with her beauty, I can now see how appearance matters … even when we are with partners we truly believe love us no matter how shabby we look.

Considering the emotional, financial and even bodily damage that infidelity can bring about, it’s worth discussing your thoughts on the issue with your mate.

While many continue to criticize the songstress’s lifestyle and even sanity in her later years, I applaud her authenticity and courage to live life on her own terms – no matter what anyone else thought or said about her.

Do you feel guilty about decisions you made in the past? If so, consider this: “right” and “wrong” are subjective, and guilt is a waste of time.

Heidi Klum and Seal’s split is a demonstration that looks can be deceiving.

Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.

To have children, or not to have children: This question has changed the dynamic of many marriages – for better, or for worse.

Is sex a sacred sharing that should only happen between two people who love each other? Is it simply for pleasure, or solely for reproduction? Or is it about intimacy?

Here’s what to do about those home-wrecking “other women.”

A key to a healthy, productive relationship is not learning how to spot the signs of an affair; it is to stop worrying about it.

Here’s a little frank love about how and where a good woman can find a good man.

Debt is an unpleasant reality that most Americans have learned to live with – both in their personal finances and in their politics. But remember when you’re holiday shopping this year that it can also be hard on a marriage.

Many of us romanticize romance … and look to famous people for inspiration – both on-screen and off-screen. But consider how well celebrity romances typically work out.

You don’t have to like your ex’s new love interest. But by bringing her into scale, you may begin liking yourself again.

Divorce is hard on children, but when those children are grown, it can be even harder.

When people “put you down,” they might actually be doing you a favor.

Sometimes, it takes a village to run a household.

Keep minor disagreements from becoming full-blown arguments by creating some rules for engagement in your relationship.

Want to really mesmerize a man? Smile at him.

Satoshi Kanazawa’s conclusion may be wrong, but the public outrage says more about the protestors than it does about him.

Believe it or not, conflict can be good for your relationship.

If you’re going to pop the question in public, be pretty sure about the answer.

Success is in the eye of the beholder, especially when it comes to relationships.

Expecting perfection from political couples might be unfair – to them and to you.

There are no “women’s issues” or “men’s issues,” because what affects you affects the ones you love.

It’s a time to thank all of the women in your life.

Here’s some Frank Love for the fairy-tale couple whose relationship has become a world-wide obsession.

“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?

Are you hesitant to get into a relationship because you’re afraid to take a chance on love?

Who is powerful in your relationship?

Being a step-parent is rewarding … and potentially complicated.

Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?

If you want to keep your friends and lovers, you will have to strike a balance between what you want and what they ask of you.

When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.

Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.

Everybody has secrets. But can you get comfortable with what you don’t know about your partner?