When you remember past relationships, do you think of your former partners fondly? Or are you still bitter, angry or hurt?

When two people share a home, they both undoubtedly want to feel comfortable there. But there will probably be times when they have opposing desires about what should go on in that space.

How much of what you read or hear about other people’s romantic partnerships do you actually believe?

What does your partner do that drives you crazy? Are you capable of simply accepting that quality or behavior as part of who your mate is, and not considering it a ploy designed to infuriate you?

How well do you and your partner make decisions together and resolve potential conflicts? Are you able to do so in a way that usually leaves both parties feeling heard, and to some degree, satisfied?

Are there aspects of your relationship that are too “sacred” to even discuss? If so, you might be headed for turbulence.

Do you feel guilty about decisions you made in the past? If so, consider this: “right” and “wrong” are subjective, and guilt is a waste of time.

Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.

To have children, or not to have children: This question has changed the dynamic of many marriages – for better, or for worse.

Here’s what to do about those home-wrecking “other women.”

A key to a healthy, productive relationship is not learning how to spot the signs of an affair; it is to stop worrying about it.

Only you can determine what you value in life and/or how you behave in order to be “a man” or “a woman.”

My second guest blogger, Jill Nelson discusses why women so often conflate a monogamous relationship with love.

When we stop blaming our former partners, and understanding the roles that we played in failed relationships, we may find peace, personal growth and a chance at new love.

You don’t have to like your ex’s new love interest. But by bringing her into scale, you may begin liking yourself again.

If we censor and censure people who say things we don’t want to hear, we may struggle to understand them.

There is a difference between regretted sex and rape.

Divorce is hard on children, but when those children are grown, it can be even harder.

If you can learn and grow from an experience, it isn’t abuse. It is a learning opportunity.

When people “put you down,” they might actually be doing you a favor.

Has your mate ever done something that hurt you? A new study suggests that it probably wasn’t as painful as you remember.

Sometimes, it takes a village to run a household.

Success is in the eye of the beholder, especially when it comes to relationships.

There are no “women’s issues” or “men’s issues,” because what affects you affects the ones you love.

“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?

Who is powerful in your relationship?

Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?

When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.

Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.

Self improvement can be satisfying. However, it is not necessary to beat oneself up along the way.

Egos play an inevitable role in any healthy relationship. Accept your partner’s and create an environment where both of your egos can peacefully co-exist.

Consider avoiding the imposition of emotional, financial and other debts upon your mate.

Gracious acceptance of the end of your relationship is a wonderful opportunity to show your partner how much you love them.

“Infidelity” may lead to better results than you ever thought imaginable.