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You Can Keep Your “Normal” Relationship

Nov. 1st 2010
Attempts to have a "normal" relationship can prevent your's from working for you.

“I Want A Commitment” – Conditionally

Oct. 25th 2010
Generally when proclaiming "I want a commitment," we are noting what we want another person to do indefinitely. We generally "want a commitment" for as long as we want a person or partner to be close to us, no longer.

Show ‘Em What You’re Working With: How to Build Value in Your Relationship

Oct. 18th 2010
Build value in your relationship by being yourself. The mate for you will find you valuable.

The Troubled Pasts of People That Do Things That We Don’t Like

Oct. 11th 2010
Generally speaking, most of us have challenging histories; not just those that do things that we are uncomfortable with.

Sacrifice: A Tool for Manipulation in Relationships

Oct. 4th 2010
The concept of "sacrificing for others" is one that is used to manipulate people into doing what we want them to do.

Commitment is Overrated

Sep. 26th 2010
Commitment is unnecessary in romantic relationships if you are continually bringing value.

Overcome the Illusion of Scarcity; Don’t Leave Your Partner Out in the Cold

Sep. 19th 2010
Effective partnerships are all over the place. Appreciate them.
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“Bad Boys” and that Chick Named “Karma”

Sep. 12th 2010
"Karma" is not a tool for judgment.

You Cannot Trust Your Man

Sep. 5th 2010
Typically, when we profess to trust our mate, we are either lying or misusing the term. Most likely we are lying with an intent to project some virtuous responsibility upon our mate, with the hope that s/he will continually protect our feelings and make us feel safe.

“Thank God for Affairs”

Aug. 30th 2010
While having an affair is one way to end some relationships, there are other, more direct, and healthy ways to do so.

Driving Intimately

Aug. 23rd 2010
Please do only one thing when you are driving. Please just drive.

Permission to Transcend Absolutes

Aug. 15th 2010
Whether partners are cheating or not is a ridiculous conversation when it precedes whether the parties are happy or not.

Assumptions, Judgments and Lack of Imagination – Part II

Aug. 8th 2010
Do not assume that you know what the agreements between two people in a relationship are. Relationships can be very unique. I hope that your's is.

Assumptions, Judgments and Lack of Imagination – Part I

Aug. 2nd 2010
Do not assume that you know what the agreements between two people in a relationship are. Relationships can be very unique. I hope that your's is.

An Important Distinction in Many Successful Relationships

Jul. 26th 2010
"Knowing" a person is more important than what many of us call "trusting" him/her any day.

Beyond Right and Wrong

Jul. 22nd 2010
Do not mistake "right" and "wrong" for compatibility issues.