In a recent graduation speech, Lisa Kudrow told young people not to take risks. And, believe it or not, I agree with her.

How much of what you read or hear about other people’s romantic partnerships do you actually believe?

Are there aspects of your relationship that are too “sacred” to even discuss? If so, you might be headed for turbulence.

Considering the emotional, financial and even bodily damage that infidelity can bring about, it’s worth discussing your thoughts on the issue with your mate.

A key to a healthy, productive relationship is not learning how to spot the signs of an affair; it is to stop worrying about it.

Do you use condemnation as a way to manipulate others into doing and behaving how you think they should?

When we stop blaming our former partners, and understanding the roles that we played in failed relationships, we may find peace, personal growth and a chance at new love.

You don’t have to like your ex’s new love interest. But by bringing her into scale, you may begin liking yourself again.

If we censor and censure people who say things we don’t want to hear, we may struggle to understand them.

If you can learn and grow from an experience, it isn’t abuse. It is a learning opportunity.

When people “put you down,” they might actually be doing you a favor.

Has your mate ever done something that hurt you? A new study suggests that it probably wasn’t as painful as you remember.

Are you thinking about (or already) checking your partner’s e-mails, text messages or call logs? And is doing so getting you anywhere?

Satoshi Kanazawa’s conclusion may be wrong, but the public outrage says more about the protestors than it does about him.

Success is in the eye of the beholder, especially when it comes to relationships.

“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?

Who is powerful in your relationship?

Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?

If you want to keep your friends and lovers, you will have to strike a balance between what you want and what they ask of you.

When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.

Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.

Everybody has secrets. But can you get comfortable with what you don’t know about your partner?

Self improvement can be satisfying. However, it is not necessary to beat oneself up along the way.

Egos play an inevitable role in any healthy relationship. Accept your partner’s and create an environment where both of your egos can peacefully co-exist.

Please consider speaking only for yourself, even when you are in a relationship.

An illusion of death may be just what your psyche needs to let go of the pain that may accompany a mate leaving you and your children in common.

“Infidelity” may lead to better results than you ever thought imaginable.

Be honest with yourself and your mate about who you are. And be clear about what your own wants, needs and desires are before considering anyone else’s.

Is your partner “untrustworthy” or do you simply think they are? And do you still wish to remain in the relationship anyway?

Judging a couple’s relationship dynamics as “disrespectful” can be disrespectful.