In a recent graduation speech, Lisa Kudrow told young people not to take risks. And, believe it or not, I agree with her.

When are you comfortable with unprotected sex?

Avoid the drama and expense of legal battles by planning for your split before it happens.

In life and love, fear will keep you from getting what you want.

Why do human beings have sex?

How much of what you read or hear about other people’s romantic partnerships do you actually believe?

What does your partner do that drives you crazy? Are you capable of simply accepting that quality or behavior as part of who your mate is, and not considering it a ploy designed to infuriate you?

How well do you and your partner make decisions together and resolve potential conflicts? Are you able to do so in a way that usually leaves both parties feeling heard, and to some degree, satisfied?

After recently having the woman I’ve been looking at for eight years blow me away with her beauty, I can now see how appearance matters … even when we are with partners we truly believe love us no matter how shabby we look.

Are there aspects of your relationship that are too “sacred” to even discuss? If so, you might be headed for turbulence.

Considering the emotional, financial and even bodily damage that infidelity can bring about, it’s worth discussing your thoughts on the issue with your mate.

Happiness is a measure by which I evaluate what (and who) is working well in my life. What you choose to value in romantic relationships is up to you.

Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.

Here’s what to do about those home-wrecking “other women.”

A key to a healthy, productive relationship is not learning how to spot the signs of an affair; it is to stop worrying about it.

Only you can determine what you value in life and/or how you behave in order to be “a man” or “a woman.”

My second guest blogger, Jill Nelson discusses why women so often conflate a monogamous relationship with love.

Here’s a little frank love about how and where a good woman can find a good man.

When we stop blaming our former partners, and understanding the roles that we played in failed relationships, we may find peace, personal growth and a chance at new love.

Many of us romanticize romance … and look to famous people for inspiration – both on-screen and off-screen. But consider how well celebrity romances typically work out.

Settling and compromising are both necessary components of the decision-making process, and neither is “good” or “bad.”

There is a difference between regretted sex and rape.

An appeal to assist “In the Morning.”

Divorce is hard on children, but when those children are grown, it can be even harder.

Just because fewer people are walking down the aisle these days doesn’t mean there are fewer marriages; or does it?

When people “put you down,” they might actually be doing you a favor.

Has your mate ever done something that hurt you? A new study suggests that it probably wasn’t as painful as you remember.

Are you thinking about (or already) checking your partner’s e-mails, text messages or call logs? And is doing so getting you anywhere?

It’s a time to thank all of the women in your life.

“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?

Are you hesitant to get into a relationship because you’re afraid to take a chance on love?

Who is powerful in your relationship?

Being a step-parent is rewarding … and potentially complicated.

Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?

If you want to keep your friends and lovers, you will have to strike a balance between what you want and what they ask of you.

When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.

Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.

“What’s the point in putting a label on your relationship?”

Please consider speaking only for yourself, even when you are in a relationship.

Gracious acceptance of the end of your relationship is a wonderful opportunity to show your partner how much you love them.

“Infidelity” may lead to better results than you ever thought imaginable.

Space may be just what your relationship needs…one way or the other.

Attempts to have a “normal” relationship can prevent your’s from working for you.

Build value in your relationship by being yourself. The mate for you will find you valuable.

Please do only one thing when you are driving. Please just drive.

Whether partners are cheating or not is a ridiculous conversation when it precedes whether the parties are happy or not.

Do not assume that you know what the agreements between two people in a relationship are. Relationships can be very unique. I hope that your’s is.

Do not assume that you know what the agreements between two people in a relationship are. Relationships can be very unique. I hope that your’s is.

“Knowing” a person is more important than what many of us call “trusting” him/her any day.

Do not mistake “right” and “wrong” for compatibility issues.