In a recent graduation speech, Lisa Kudrow told young people not to take risks. And, believe it or not, I agree with her.

When are you comfortable with unprotected sex?

Avoid the drama and expense of legal battles by planning for your split before it happens.

If your ex is still a good parent to your children, consider yourself blessed.

Romantic comedies may not be your style, guys. But if your lady likes “chick-flicks,” I suggest sharing her popcorn.

Do you and your partner play the blame game? Psychologists say it’s only natural, but that doesn’t mean it’s productive.

When two people share a home, they both undoubtedly want to feel comfortable there. But there will probably be times when they have opposing desires about what should go on in that space.

Sometimes the egocentric desire to keep score can ruin the enjoyment we get from simply giving to others.

What does your partner do that drives you crazy? Are you capable of simply accepting that quality or behavior as part of who your mate is, and not considering it a ploy designed to infuriate you?

How well do you and your partner make decisions together and resolve potential conflicts? Are you able to do so in a way that usually leaves both parties feeling heard, and to some degree, satisfied?

Are there aspects of your relationship that are too “sacred” to even discuss? If so, you might be headed for turbulence.

Considering the emotional, financial and even bodily damage that infidelity can bring about, it’s worth discussing your thoughts on the issue with your mate.

Neither selfishness nor selflessness is good or bad. In fact, the two concepts are inextricably linked, not opposites, as their definitions seemingly imply.

Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.

To have children, or not to have children: This question has changed the dynamic of many marriages – for better, or for worse.

Debt is an unpleasant reality that most Americans have learned to live with – both in their personal finances and in their politics. But remember when you’re holiday shopping this year that it can also be hard on a marriage.

Settling and compromising are both necessary components of the decision-making process, and neither is “good” or “bad.”

There is a difference between regretted sex and rape.

Is having children a sacrifice, or is it just as selfish as everything else we do?

Has your mate ever done something that hurt you? A new study suggests that it probably wasn’t as painful as you remember.

Sometimes, it takes a village to run a household.

“Social appreciation” is not a “tip.”

The Queen of Soul says, “Don’t be afraid to grow out of love.”

Keep minor disagreements from becoming full-blown arguments by creating some rules for engagement in your relationship.

When you’re a dad who also has an old man, Father’s Day isn’t all about you. That’s why we need more than one day.

Believe it or not, conflict can be good for your relationship.

If you’re going to pop the question in public, be pretty sure about the answer.

“Abuse” is term that is thrown around pretty liberally in our society. But do you abuse the word “abuse”?

Who is powerful in your relationship?

Being a step-parent is rewarding … and potentially complicated.

Are you accepting of your loved ones – even the unpleasant parts?

If you want to keep your friends and lovers, you will have to strike a balance between what you want and what they ask of you.

When expressing our romantic thoughts and feelings, we can be far more effective (and genuine) if we skip the cliches and get a bit more creative.

Do you have a history of being treated badly by the opposite sex? Here’s what you can do about it.

Self improvement can be satisfying. However, it is not necessary to beat oneself up along the way.

Egos play an inevitable role in any healthy relationship. Accept your partner’s and create an environment where both of your egos can peacefully co-exist.

You partner can help you acquire the skills and/or achieve the accomplishments that you’d like…if you ask.

Please consider speaking only for yourself, even when you are in a relationship.

Consider avoiding the imposition of emotional, financial and other debts upon your mate.