What is Important to Me?
Sometimes the egocentric desire to keep score can ruin the enjoyment we get from simply giving to others.
Archive for the 'self-centered' Category
Are Relationships Sacred?
Are there aspects of your relationship that are too “sacred” to even discuss? If so, you might be headed for turbulence.
Selfish vs. Selfless: What’s the Difference?
Neither selfishness nor selflessness is good or bad. In fact, the two concepts are inextricably linked, not opposites, as their definitions seemingly imply.
Who Says I Have to be Happy?
Happiness is a measure by which I evaluate what (and who) is working well in my life. What you choose to value in romantic relationships is up to you.
Should I Help Raise a Child I Didn’t Want?
Whether to have children is a very big (and very personal) decision. And it can really get complicated when factoring a partner’s desires into the equation.
Married and ‘Single’ Parenting
To have children, or not to have children: This question has changed the dynamic of many marriages – for better, or for worse.
The Purpose of Sex
Is sex a sacred sharing that should only happen between two people who love each other? Is it simply for pleasure, or solely for reproduction? Or is it about intimacy?
Are My Saggy Pants Really Hurting You?
Do you use condemnation as a way to manipulate others into doing and behaving how you think they should?
A Perspective Against “Manning Up”
Only you can determine what you value in life and/or how you behave in order to be “a man” or “a woman.”
You Don’t Have to “Change the World”
At the end of the day, there is no such thing as a selfless act.
